I have no idea.....well that isn't entirely true, we all have some idea, just nothing specific. . I don't have a problem meeting men, I guess I just haven't met the right man. I want a friend as well as a boyfriend, someone to talk to, go to the beach with, go shopping, someone that can give me an opinion on things. I don't want to take over anyone's life. We will have our own lives, yet want to be with each other. I will be there whenever she needs me, and I want him to be there if I ever need him. Is this too much to ask??I believe in compromise and discussion, finding out what the other person thinks and feels. I want to take the time to get to know someone who wants to take the time to get to know me. Hopefully nice guys DON'T finish last.

The person I'd like to meet is first of all a friend. Someone who I can have fun with and feel like we are on the same page. My ideal friend is witty, but not mean-sprited; beautiful but not pompous; driven but not absent-minded; affectionate but not suffocating; and secure enough to let go and know I'll return the favor. I am not sure what I can write here to even begin to describe everything that makes me who I am, without sounding like a resume.